Author(s): Keith FerrazziDownload
Publish: Published February 22nd 2005 by Crown Business (first published January 1st 2005)
ISBN: ISBN 0385512058 (ISBN13: 9780385512053)
Do you want to get ahead in life?
Climb the ladder to personal success?
The secret, master networker Keith Ferrazzi claims, is in reaching out to other people. As Ferrazzi discovered early in life, what distinguishes highly successful people from everyone else is the way they use the power of relationships–so that everyone wins.
In “Never Eat Alone,” Ferrazzi lays out the specific steps–and inner mindset–he uses to reach out to connect with the thousands of colleagues, friends, and associates on his Rolodex, people he has helped and who have helped him.
The son of a small-town steelworker and a cleaning lady, Ferrazzi first used his remarkable ability to connect with others to pave the way to a scholarship at Yale, a Harvard MBA, and several top executive posts. Not yet out of his thirties, he developed a network of relationships that stretched from Washington’s corridors of power to Hollywood’s A-list, leading to him being named one of Crain’s 40 Under 40 and selected as a Global Leader for Tomorrow by the Davos World Economic Forum.
Ferrazzi’s form of connecting to the world around him is based on generosity, helping friends connect with other friends. Ferrazzi distinguishes genuine relationship-building from the crude, desperate glad-handling usually associated with “networking.” He then distills his system of reaching out to people into practical, proven principles. Among them:
Don’t keep score: It’s never simply about getting what you want. It’s about getting what you want and making sure that the people who are important to you get what they want, too.
“Ping” constantly: The Ins and Outs of reaching out to those in your circle of contacts all the time–not just when you need something.
Never eat alone: The dynamics of status are the same whether you’re working at a corporation or attending a society event– “invisibility” is a fate worse than failure.
In the course of the book, Ferrazzi outlines the timeless strategies shared by the world’s most connected individuals, from Katherine Graham to Bill Clinton, Vernon Jordan to the Dalai Lama.
Chock full of specific advice on handling rejection, getting past gatekeepers, becoming a “conference commando,” and more, “Never Eat Alone” is destined to take its place alongside “How to Win Friends and Influence People” as an inspirational classic.
Some Reviews: 36,088 ratings 1,270 reviews in Goodreads.com
Gives you good tips and insights on own to build a valuable network of relationships.
Although it hints in its pages at some reflections of ethical balances it still comes out as an elitists book. Is based principles of network of privilege, unfair access to knowledge&connections and often advocates for concentration of power.
I read some of the other reviews which call the author too boastful and egotistical. I strongly disagree – you can’t have it both ways when you want to hear candid advice on how to be successful, have examples on what made the author successful and then expect modesty from the author at the same time.